இரண்டாம் திருமணத்திற்கு முதல் மனைவியின் அனுமதி தேவயைா?



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xU Mz; ,uz;lhtJ jpUkzk; nra;tjw;F ,];yhj;jpy; jilNaJk; ,y;iy. Mdhy; ,t;thW nra;tjw;F Kd; rpy xOq;F Kiwfisg; Ngzpf; nfhs;SkhW ,];yhk; topfhl;Lfpd;wJ. jpUkzj;ij cWjpahd xg;ge;jk; vd;W jpUf;FHMd; $Wfpd;wJ.

cq;fsplk; fLikahd cld;gbf;ifia mtHfs; (cq;fs; kidtpkhHfs;) vLj;Js;shHfs;. my;FHMd; (4 : 21)

xUtH ,uz;lhtJ jpUkzk; nra;tjhy; Kjy; kidtpapd; cupikfis ,uz;lhtJ kidtpf;Fg; gq;F itj;Jf; nfhLf;Fk; epiy Vw;gLfpd;wJ.

kidtpAld; ,tH jq;Fk; ehl;fs; kidtpf;F ,tH mspf;Fk; nryTj; njhif ,tH ,we;Jtpl;lhy; ,tUila nrhj;jpy; gq;F ngWjy; Mfpa tp\aq;fspy; Kjy; kidtpf;Fk; ,uz;lhtJ kidtpf;Fk; ,ilNa ePjkhf elf;f Ntz;Lk;. fztd; epahakhf elf;fj; jtwpdhy; mijj; jl;bf; Nfl;Fk; cupik kidtpf;F cz;L.

,uz;lhtJ jpUkzk; nra;ag; NghFk; jftiy Kjy; kidtpf;Fj; njupag;gLj;jpdhNy ,e;j cupikia Kjy; kidtpf;F toq;f KbAk;.

xUtH Kjy; kidtpf;Fj; njupahky; ,uz;lhtJ jpUkzk; nra;fpwhH. ,tH kuzpj;J tpl;lhy; mtH tpl;Lr; nrd;w nrhj;jpy; Kjy; kidtpf;Fk; ,uz;lhtJ kidtpf;Fk; gq;F cz;L.

Mdhy; ,tH ,ufrpakhf ,uz;lhtJ jpUkzk; nra;jjhy; ,tUila nrhj;jpy; ,uz;lhtJ kidtpf;F gq;F nfhLf;fg;glhky; mtH Gwf;fzpf;fg;gLk; #oy; Vw;gLk;.

NkYk; xUtH ,uz;lhtJ jpUkzk; nra;jhy; Kjy; kidtpAld; mtH nra;j jpUkz xg;ge;jj;jpy; khw;wq;fs; nra;a Ntz;ba mtrpak; Vw;gLfpd;wJ. vdNt xg;ge;jjhuuhd Kjy; kidtpaplk;> jhd; ,uz;lhtJ jpUkzk; nra;ag; Nghtjhf njuptpg;gJ mtrpak;.

,t;thW Kjy; kidtpaplk; njuptpj;j gpd; gioagb mNj fztUf;F kidtpahf tho;tjw;Fk; my;yJ jd;Dila jpUkz xg;ge;jj;ij uj;Jr; nra;J fztid tpl;L gpupe;Jnfhs;tjw;Fk; Kjy; kidtpf;F cupik cs;sJ. ,e;j cupikia ,];yhk; ngz;Zf;F toq;fpAs;sJ.

,uz;lhtJ jpUkzk; nra;Ak; jftiy Kjy; kidtpaplk; njuptpj;jhNy ,e;j cupikia mg;ngz; gad;gLj;j KbAk;. njuptpf;fhtpl;lhy; ,];yhk; ngz;fSf;F toq;fpa cupikia Kjy; fztd; gwpj;jtuhfptpLthH. vdNt Kjy; kidtpf;Fj; njupahky; mLj;j jpUkzk; nra;tJ jtW.

,jw;F gpd;tUk; nra;jpfs; Mjhuq;fshf cs;sd.

`{ird; gpd; myP (uyp) mtHfs; $wpdhHfs; : myP gpd; mgPjhypg; (uyp) mtHfs; /ghj;jpkh (uyp) mtHfs; (capNuhL jk; kzge;jj;jpy;) ,Uf;Fk; NghNj mg+[`;Yila kfis (kze;J nfhs;sg;) ngz; NgrpdhHfs;.

(me;j Neuj;jpy;) my;yh`;tpd; J}jH (]y;) mtHfs; mJ Fwpj;J kf;fsplk; jkJ ,e;j kpk;gupy; (epd;wgb) ciuahw;wpaij ehd; nrtpAw;Nwd;. mg;NghJ ehd; gUt taij mile;J tpl;bUe;Njd; egp (]y;) mtHfs;> " /ghj;jpkh vd;dpy; xU gFjpahthH. mtH jdJ khHf;f tptfhuj;jpy; Nrhjidf;Fs;shf;fg;gLthH vd;W ehd; mQ;RfpNwd;" vd;W $wp tpl;L> gD} mg;jp \k;]; Fyj;ijr; NrHe;j jkJ kUkfid (mGy; M]; gpd; ugPcit) mtH jk;kplk; ey;y kUkfdhf ele;J nfhz;lijf; Fwpj;J (epidT $He;J) Gfo;e;jhHfs;. "mtH vd;dplk; Ngrpa NghJ cz;ikNa nrhd;dhH. vdf;F thf;FWjpaspj;J mij vdf;F epiwNtw;wpj; je;jhH. NkYk;> ehd; mDkjpf;fg;gl;l xd;iwj; jil nra;af; $batd; my;yd;@ jil nra;ag;gl;l xd;iw mDkjpf;fg; gl;lnjd;W mwptpf;fTk; khl;Nld;. MapDk;> my;yh`;tpd; kPjhizahf! my;yh`;tpd; J}jH (]y;) mtHfSila kfSk; my;yh`;tpd; giftDila kfSk; (xNu egUila kzge;jj;jpy;) xd;W Nru KbahJ" vd;W $wpdhHfs;. Gfhup (3110)

egp (]y;) mtHfspd; kUkfdhH mGy; M]; egpatHfspd; kfs; i]dg; (uyp) mtHfis kze;Jnfhz;lhHfs;. i]dg; kidtpahf ,Uf;Fk; NghJ mLj;j jpUkzk; nra;af;$lhJ vd egp (]y;) mtHfs; mGy; M]; (uyp) mtHfSld; xg;ge;jk; nra;J jdJ kfis mtUf;F kzKbj;Jf;nfhLj;Js;shHfs;. me;j xg;ge;jj;ij mGy; M]; (uyp) mtHfs; filrp tiu Ngzpajhf egpatHfs; mtiug; Gfo;fpwhHfs;.

vdNt xU Miz xU ngz; jpUkzk; nra;Ak; NghNj ehd; kidtpahf ,Uf;ifapy; vd;idj; jtpu NtW ve;j ngz;izAk; mLj;J kzKbf;ff;$lhJ vd epge;jidapl;L kzKbg;gjw;F khHf;fj;jpy; mDkjpAs;sJ.

kp];tH gpd; kf;ukh (uyp) mtHfs; $wpdhHfs; : my;yh`;tpd; J}jH (]y;) mtHfs; nrhw;nghopT Nkil (kpk;gH) kPjpUe;j gb> "`p\hk; gpd; K/fPuh Nfhj;jpuj;jhH jq;fs; (cwtpduhd mg+[`;Yila) kfis myP gpd; mgPjhypg; mtHfSf;F kzKbj;J itf;f (vd;dplk;) mDkjpNfhupdH. mjw;F ehd; mDkjpf;f khl;Nld;. kPz;Lk; ehd; mDkjpf;f khl;Nld;. kPz;Lk; ehd; mDkjpf;f khl;Nld;. myP gpd; mgP jhypg; mtHfs; vd; kfis (/ghj;jpkhit) tpthftpyf;Fr; nra;Jtpl;L> mtHfSila kfis kzKbj;Jf; nfhs;s tpUk;gpdhNy jtpu (mtHfSf;F ehd; mDkjp toq;f khl;Nld;). /ghj;jpkh vd;dpy; xU gFjpahthH. /ghj;jpkhit ntWg;gilar; nra;tJ vd;id ntWg;gilar; nra;tjhFk;@ mtiu kd Ntjidg;gLj;JtJ vd;id kd Ntjidg;gLj;JtjhFk;" vd;W nrhd;dhHfs;. Gfhup (5230)

myP (uyp) mtHfs; ,uz;lhtJ jpUkzk; nra;tij egp (]y;) mtHfs; jil nra;atpy;iy. Ke;ija nra;jpapy; MFkhdij ehd; jil nra;akhl;Nld; vd egpatHfs; $wpa thrfk; ,ij czHj;Jfpd;wJ.

khwhf ,uz;lhtJ jpUkzk; nra;tjhf ,Ue;jhy; jdJ kfs; /ghj;jpkhit tpthfuj;Jr; nra;JtpLkhW $wpdhHfs;. ,uz;lhtJ jpUkzk; nra;Ak; fztid tpl;Lg; gpuptjw;F ngz;Zf;F cupik cz;L vd;gjhy; ,e;j cupikia ,q;F egpatHfs; gad;gLj;JfpwhHfs;.

vdNt xUtH mLj;j jpUkzk; nra;jhy; Kjy; kidtpf;F mij mtH njupag;gLj;j Ntz;Lk;.

NkYs;s `jP]py; myP gpd; mgP jhypg; mtHfs; vd; kfis (/ghj;jpkhit) tpthftpyf;Fr; nra;Jtpl;L> mtHfSila kfis kzKbj;Jf; nfhs;s tpUk;gpdhNy jtpu vd;W egp (]y;) mtHfs; $wpAs;shHfs;.

,uz;lhtJ jpUkzk; nra;tjw;F Kd;Ng Kjy; kidtpf;F njupag;gLj;j Ntz;Lk; vd egpatHfspd; thrfk; njspTgLj;Jfpd;wJ.

xg;ge;jj;jpy; khw;wk; nra;tjw;F Kd; xg;ge;jjhuuplk; njuptpg;gJ jhd; rupahd nray;. ek; ,\;lj;Jf;F xg;ge;jj;ij khw;wtpl;L gpwF ,ij njspTgLj;jpdhy; xg;ge;jjhuUf;Fupa cupikia ehk; toq;ftpy;iy vd;whfptpLk;. vdNt ,uz;lhtJ jpUkzk; nra;tjw;F Kd;Ng Kjy; kidtpf;F ,ij njupag;gLj;JtJ jhd; rup.

njhpag;gLj;jpajd; gpd;dh; Kjy; kidtpapd; rk;kjj;ijAk; ngWtJ mtrpakh? vd;why; mtrpakpy;iy. nghJthf ngz;fisg; nghUj;jkl;by; jdJ fztid ,d;ndhU ngz;Zf;F gq;F itg;gjw;F ve;jnthU ngz;Zk; tpUk;g khl;lhs;. vd; fztd; vdf;F kl;Lk; jhd; vd;w czh;Nt jiyJ}f;fp epw;Fk;. vdNt jhd;> ,uz;lhk; jpUkzk; nra;ag;NghFk; jftiy Kjy; kidtpapw;F njhptpAq;fs; vd;W nrhd;d egpath;fs;> Kjy; kidtpapd; rk;kjj;ij ngwNtz;Lk; vd;W epge;jid ,ltpy;iy. jftiy nrhy;tJ jhd; flik. mijf; Nfl;l gpd;G rk;kjpj;jhy; ,tDld; ,ize;J thoyhk;. tpUk;ghtpl;lhy; tpthfuj;Jg; ngw;W gphpe;J tplyhk; vd;gjpypUe;Nj Kjy; kidtp rk;kjpj;jhy; kl;Lk; jhd; ,uz;lhk; jpUkzk; vd;w Nfhl;ghl;il ,];yhk; jfh;g;gijAk; fhzyhk;.

,q;F vkJ ngz;fs; Ghpe;J nfhs;s Ntz;ba ,d;DnkhU tplaKk; cs;sJ. nghJthf Mz; ngz; vd;w ,UtiuAk; vLj;Jf; nfhz;lhy; ,UtUf;fpilapYk; cly; kw;Wk; czh;T hPjpahf gy;NtWgl;l tpj;jpahrq;fSld; my;yh`; gilj;jpUg;gij Ghpayhk;. ,jpYk; Fwpg;ghf ghYzh;it nghUj;j kl;bNy xU ngz;Zf;Fk; MZf;Fkpilapy; epiwe;j NtWghLfs; epyTtij fhzyhk;. xU ngz;iz tpl Xh; Mz; mtrukhf ghypay; czh;Tfshy; ce;jg;gLfpwhd;. gputhfpf;Fk; jdJ czh;TfSf;F chpa tbfhy; fpilf;fhj NghJ> my;yJ mjw;F jilfs; Vw;gLj;jg;gLk; NghJ> my;yJ fhy jhkjk; Mfpd;w NghJ Xh; Mz; KiwNflhd topfspd; %yk; jd; clk;Gj; jhfj;ij jzpj;Jf; nfhs;tjw;F Kay;fpwhd;. tpgr;rhuk;> tpiykhjUldhd jfhj cwT> rpWth; J\;gpuNahfk;> Xupzr;Nrh;f;if> Ra ,d;gk; fhz Kaw;rpj;jy; Nghd;w ghtr; nray;fs; tpahgpg;gjw;fhd %y fhuzk; mtdJ czh;TfSf;fhd chpa tbfhy; tha;f;fhikNa! Mzpd; ,e;j ,ay;gpd; ajhh;j;jj;ij my;yh`;tpd; J}jh; mofhfr; nrhy;tij fhzyhk;. xU fztd; jd; kidtpia cwTf;fhf miof;Fk; NghJ mk;kidtp mLg;gq;fiuapy; ,Ue;j NghjpYk; clNd mtdpd; miog;Gf;F gjpyspf;f Ntz;Lk; vd;w nra;jp Mzpd; czh;T cldbahf jzpf;fg;gly; Ntz;Lk; vd;gijAk;> jtWk; gl;rj;jpy; tpisTfs; tpj;jpahrg;gLk; vd;gijAk; Nfhbl;Lf; fhl;LfpwJ.

Mz;fisg; nghUj;j kl;by; midj;J Mz;fSk; xd;W Nghy; ,Uf;f khl;lhh;fs;. gyh; xU kidtpapd; %yk; jd; czh;Tfis NghJkhf;fpf; nfhs;thh;fs;. Mdhy;> rpyh; ,jpypUe;J tpj;jpahrg;gl;Lk; epw;gh;. ,th;fisg; nghUj;j kl;by; jq;fs; czh;Tj; jzpg;Gf;F xd;Wf;F Nkw;gl;l kidtpah; mtrpag;gLth;. jpdk; jpdk; ,y;yw cwtpy; ,d;gk; fhz tpUk;Gk; Mz;fSk; cyfpy; ,Uf;fNt nra;fpd;wdh;. ,J ,iwtNd Vw;gLj;jpa ,ay;G vd;gijAk; ehk; xj;Jf; nfhz;lhf Ntz;Lk;. vdNt jhd;> ,j;jifa Mz;fspd; ,ay;Gf;F Vw;whw; Nghy; ,iwtDk; gyjhu kzj;jpw;fhd mDkjpia toq;fp> Kiwahd tbfhiy Vw;gLj;jpapUg;gij fhzyhk;.

vdNt> Xh; Mzpd; ,ay;Gk; ,iwtdpd; gilg;nghOq;Fk; ,Jjhd; vd;wpUf;Fk; NghJ> ngz;fshfpa cq;fs; fztUk; ,j;jifa ,ay;igf; nfhz;lth; jhd; vd;w ajhh;j;jj;ij xt;nthU ngz;Zk; rhpahf Ghpe;J nfhs;s Ntz;Lk;. cq;fSf;F NehNah> khjtplha; ghjpg;Ngh> gps;isg;NgNwh epfOk; fhy ,ilntspapy; cq;fs; fzthpd; ghypay; czh;TfSf;F tbfhy; fpilf;fhj NghJ Vw;gLk; vjph; tpisT vJthf ,Uf;f KbAk;?

,];yhk; mDkjpj;j Kiwapy; ,uz;lhk; jhuk; mike;jpUe;jhy; `yhyhd Kiwapy; cq;fs; fztdpd; czh;Tfs; jPh;f;fg;gLk;. ,jd; %yk; mtdJ fw;Gk;> cq;fs; khdKk;> FLk;g khpahijAk;> gps;isfspd; vjph;fhyKk; fhf;fg;gLk;. ,y;iy. vdJ ];jhdj;jpy; ,d;ndhUtSf;F ,lkspf;f khl;Nld; vd;W ePq;fs; gpbthjk; gpbj;jhy; mjd; tpisT vj;jif jhf;fq;fis Njhw;Wtpf;Fk;? Xd;wpy; cq;fs; fzth; cq;fSld; gpur;rpidapy;

,t;tpuz;L epiyg;ghLfspy; vJ rpwe;jJ? khh;f;fk; mDkjpj;j Kiwapy; ,uz;lhk; kidtpAld; tho;e;J khdk; khpahijfSld; tho;tjw;fhd mDkjpia cq;fs; fztUf;F toq;Ftjh? my;yJ> vd; fzth; ve;j KiwNflhd topapy; nrd;W jd; czh;it jPh;j;Jf; nfhz;lhYk; guthapy;iy> vdJ ,lj;jpy; ,d;ndhUj;jp te;Jtplf; $lhJ vd;w cq;fs; epiyg;ghL rpwe;jjh?

vdNt> fztd; kidtp vDk; ,UtUk; ,UtuJ cs czh;TfisAk;> cly; czh;TfisAk; kpfj;Js;spakhf Ghpe;J nfhz;lhy; vk; tho;T tskhFk;.tho;tJ RfkhFk;.




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